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Simple To Follow Bridal Shower Etiquette Rules



Bridal showers are a lot of fun but keep in mind that there are some unwritten rules that should be followed when planning your event. Some people consider bridal shower etiquette very important; other people don’t consider it as important. Although it is a topic for debate, there are some guidelines you should adhere to so that all guests are made to feel comfortable.

Who Can Host The Shower?

The maid of honor is traditionally the bridal shower hostess. However, if she is unable to perform the role, a suitable substitute should be chosen. The maid of honor should always be consulted throughout the planning process so that she is not offended.

Members of the wedding party and the mothers of the bride and groom should also play roles in the wedding shower. Perhaps they can organize the catering or party games or simply be responsible for recording gifts and those who give them.

When Can The Shower Take Place?

Traditionally, bridal showers are held a minimum of one month before the wedding, as not to interfere with the wedding planning. However, if it’s practical to hold the shower at another time, consult the bride and choose the date.

Who Should Be Invited?

Bridal shower etiquette rules state that only close, female family and friends should attend the celebration. It should also be an intimate event of no more than 20 people. The wedding party, the mothers and sisters of the bride and groom, plus the bride’s closest friends and colleagues should all be invited. There has been a recent trend to include every female attending the wedding but this is not recommended.